An Evans-Manning to Glaivester, who, in the “Tyranny Of The Offence-Takers” thread, and with admirable economy of words, makes an important distinction between politeness and political correctness. He’s responding to Geoff G.’s position that what people deride as p.c. is really just politeness, e.g., telling an annoying relative that you’re glad to see them. Glaivester responds:
The difference is that politeness is merely formal. Political correctness requires that you internalize the lie. Politeness is telling an ugly woman that she is attractive. Political correctness is encouraging her to try for a modeling job and then picketing the modeling agency if they don’t hire her.
It’s all well and good to be polite in social situations. But when discussing actual policies, politeness must not get in the way of clear thinking.



Glaivester provides a false distinction (and one that is of his own making). Political correctness is , for the most part, reactive in nature.
About 90% of the complaints about political correctness are based on no longer being able to use hateful or demeaning words to attack your opponent.
The problem with many who grouse about political correctness is that they want to be disrespectful and still be respected by more than a narrow constituency. Those who don’t give a fig about being politically correct (think Rush Limbaugh) are not interested in what those outside the true believers think.