There are no words. Right here at Christmastime:
Eighteen children were killed on Friday morning in a shooting at an elementary school in Newtown, Conn., about 65 miles northeast of New York City, according to a person who had been briefed on the shooting. Another law enforcement official said preliminary reports suggested there could be as many as 20 fatalities, ranking it among the worst mass killings in United States history.
One state official said that an adult gunman was believed to be dead in the shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary School. The gunman was in possession of at least two firearms, the official said. There was some speculation that there were two gunmen involved in the mass shooting.
Stephen Delgiadice said his 8-year-old daughter heard two big bangs and teachers told her to get in a corner. His daughter was fine.
“It’s alarming, especially in Newtown, Connecticut, which we always thought was the safest place in America,” he said.
At this point, I think it’s more important that we tell our children how much we love them than that we use this evil event to draw political conclusions. To paraphrase Solzhenitsyn, the line between good and evil does not run between geographic or economic borders, but down the middle of every human heart. Lord, have mercy.
UPDATE: I was just down in the barbershop with my son when the president came on TV to talk about the killings. It was powerful, watching him tear up like that. I believe it was completely genuine. He is a father. No father (or mother) can face this without being shaken to the core. I appreciate the president’s passion and his dignity, and I share his frustration with why this kind of thing keeps happening. It goes beyond the availability of guns. I grew up in a rural gun culture. This sort of thing never happened, and still doesn’t down here. There’s something else going on.
UPDATE: Well, everybody’s going to talk about it, it seems. That’s fine. I just hate the reflex we have in this country to take events like this and react politically before we even stop to recognize it as a human tragedy. Anyway, Jeffrey Goldberg has some worthwhile thoughts about what we can and can’t do to stop things like this. It seems to me that whatever we might say or do with regard to gun regulation, there is something more fundamentally wrong with this country and its people. Me and you, I mean. The gun control argument that comes out every time we have something terrible like this happen reminds me of the futility of the arguments we have over teen pregnancy. Many people like to believe that the reason teenagers get pregnant is a lack of knowledge about and access to contraception. Is it really the case, in 2012, that a meaningful number of teenagers are ignorant of how one gets pregnant, and how one prevents it? Is it really the case that kids get pregnant because they can’t get their hands on rubbers, or other forms of contraception? Or is there something more fundamental and mysterious at work?



And now for something REALLY unpopular…my opinion:
I have two elementary school age children. I have attended at least five “higher-learning” institutions in the last ten years, from community college to the Ivy league. I’ve worked in the private sector from minimum-wage service industry to union labor, and been up-close-and-personal with every American institution from the “mental health” industry, to the military, to householder, to college, to jail.
Here is the reality: American society is broken, and there is no fixing it. The blood-dimmed tide is loose and there’s nothing poetic about it at all.
Kip Kinkel’s mother and father: both school teachers
Dylan Klebold’s mother: college administrator
James Holmes’s father: ‘mathematician’ with graduate degrees from Stanford & Berkeley
James Holmes himself: Honors graduate student in neuroscience
Ryan Lanza’s mother: school teacher
All these young murderers come from painfully-typical, if not ideal, American upper-middle class homes. Why are they doing this? The answer is long but easy.
Young men in our society are raised in an ultra-sterile and institutionalized environment with no transcendental moral guidance whatsoever and ever-decreasing independent economic opportunities.
Women enjoy lower unemployment, higher college attendance and graduation rates, and highly unjust family divorce/custody laws which favor even unfit mothers over hard-working fathers.
These young men are also surrounded by a culture that places no intrinsic value on human life whatsoever. The culture of death, death, and can-we-please-be-paid-for-more-joyless-sex-and-death.
To top it all off they are told that they, or their fathers, or their great-grandfathers who they never met, are to blame for all of society’s ills and that young men now should just shut up, take their student loans/unemployment checks/parents’ allowances and just go to their unattended, empty homes and play video games their whole young lives as their only acceptable outlet and also as practice for later “adulthood” when they work meaningless jobs and come home to scuttle off to their “man-caves” to drink booze, watch porn and prepare for their own divorce and custody disputes. But don’t disrespect women or children.
The brutal, inarguable truth is that anyone who is NOT hopeless and desperate in such circumstances is mentally ill.
Let the poet say it again:
Turning and turning in the widening gyre
The falcon cannot hear the falconer;
Things fall apart; the centre cannot hold;
Mere anarchy is loosed upon the world,
The blood-dimmed tide is loosed, and everywhere
The ceremony of innocence is drowned;
The best lack all conviction, while the worst
Are full of passionate intensity.