Mourning Tumblr’s pornographic content is more than mourning sexy GIFs. It’s mourning openness. The Internet democratized sex; suddenly, what was once too taboo to access without stigma was available to anyone with a screen and a search engine. Tumblr made that democratized system more democratic still. Its independent model emphasized performers’ agency, which meant posters’ output was more likely to be ethical and not exploitative. And a focus on creativity over merely clicks for cash led to bodies that were not stereotypically porn-ready, sexualities that sold less well on the mainstream market, kinks that were not presented as some strange sort of “other. ”

This is the sort of porn it is worth shedding a tear or two over, and its loss is a sign that an Internet that once seemed limitless may be getting a little smaller. It is hard to say now what the world will look like with a slightly less wide Web. One thing, though, is certain: We’ll know it when we see it.

I understand that people like pornography. People are subject to vices of all kinds. Geezer that I am, though, I am gobsmacked by these claims that porn is character-building and civic-minded. What astonishing corruption has overtaken our elites.

UPDATE.2: A Catholic reader from France e-mails:

“As an aside, if you are the kind of conservative Christian who thinks that Muslims like Ismail Royer are your enemy, and not a vital ally against the pornification of the American character, you really need to re-think your position. What we need is a practical intersectionality of the morally sane.”

I am glad to see you’ve finally come to the position I’ve reached a long time ago – and for which I’ve been mocked and abused by my coreligionists for almost as long.

The normalization/mainstreamization of porn is one of the most irksome features of this “culture”, for it’s not just about filth being available to everybody, it also affects people’s behaviour. I don’t have a problem with people watching others having sex on a screen; my beef is when they start boasting about it, discussing it as though it was one of the noblest pursuits of mankind or “no big deal”. Twenty years ago, people who watched porn did it behind closed doors and didn’t tell anyone because while “everybody did it” it was usually considered a pastime for losers with no sex lives of their own or couples in need of fresh ideas. Fox Mulder with his videotapes “that didn’t belong to him” was pretty much typical of the porn viewer of the era.

Move twenty years on and porn is everywhere and almost regarded as a fundamental right; even worse people pornify their own lives, flaunting their sexual exploits as they would talk about what they had for dinner last night, and the more people in the know the better. Celebrities and the media as often show the way ahead. I mean, you know pretty much everything you need to know about the situation when one of the most popular podcasts in the world is called “My Dad Wrote a Porno” and frequently has famous people coming to talk about sex, including their own sex lives, in graphic and foul detail. Whatever happened to the very notion of privacy? Of course uttering a single word in opposition brands you immediately a “prude” or “judgmental” but one of the reasons why I don’t have kids is that I don’t want them to grow up in a culture in which famous entertainers boast about being Grindr users.

So yes, as I said to you previously, I hold no grudge against Muslims, provided of course that they don’t try to impose their beliefs and rituals upon me. Since none has tried so far, I regard them as allies, not threats.