Or, as Noah Millman better puts it, “Running Towards, Not Away.”  That blog post is his comment on my earlier entry about the gay tastemaker Tim Gunn and his confession that he’s spent nearly 30 years as a celibate. Gunn explained that it’s the result of a traumatic break-up, and a desire to avoid contracting HIV. … Continue reading Positive Asceticism, Negative Asceticism