Ross Douthat, riffing off demographer Nick Eberstadt’s new essay in the Wilson Quarterly, discussed the sci-fi weirdness of Japan’s demographic collapse. Excerpt:
These trends are forging a society that sometimes evokes the infertile Britain in [novelist P.D.] James’s dystopia [in her novel "The Children of Men"]. Japan has one of the highest suicide rates in the developed world, and there were rashes of Internet-enabled group suicides in the last decade. Rental “relatives” are available for sparsely attended wedding parties; so-called “babyloids” — furry dolls that mimic infant sounds — are being developed for lonely seniors; and Japanese researchers are at the forefront of efforts to build robots that resemble human babies. The younger generation includes millions of so-called “parasite singles” who still live with (and off) their parents, and perhaps hundreds of thousands of the “hikikomori”—“young adults,” Eberstadt writes, “who shut themselves off almost entirely by retreating into a friendless life of video games, the Internet and manga (comics) in their parents’ home.”



Japan has always had a high suicide rate. Unlike Christian (or for that matter Islamic) cultures, Japan has retained the old honor/shame concept of honor-redeeming suicide in the face of failure. This is nothing new.
As for people living with their parents, until fairly recently this was quite normal in the US: at least one adult child would live with the parents as they aged, and eventually inherit the family home. In fact that ought appeal to the “crunchy” ethic in place of the modern custom of moving across the country and dumping Ma and Pa in a nursing home when they get old. But some American families still retain the notion of an adult child living at home; I come from such a family where this was not at all unusual.
And yes, we Americans have our video game addicts too. I know someone like that, who spends almost every free moment with whatever game is the latest fad. I also know some TV adicts who anesthetize themselves with the boob tube if nothing else demands their attention. And I myself had a couple phases of vidiocy I went through, once as a teenager and again in my 20s in reaction to some pretty unhappy stuff happening in my life. Depressed people do depressing things, and not just in Japan.