A reader writes:
The response to the Regnerus study on gay parenting is proof that *everything* is evidence for why we need same-sex marriage. If gay couples are high-functioning and healthy, well, obviously they deserve to be married. If they’re unstable and bad for kids, well, obviously they need marriage. What the world needs, my friend, is GAY MARRIAGE.
Just so we’re clear.
Yes. In fact, if we had gay marriage, the eurozone currency crisis would resolve itself, global warming would recede, the lion would lay down with the lamb, and they would open a free Disney theme park on the summit of Big Rock Candy Mountain. If people could just get past their bigotry, they would see that it only stands to reason.
I kid. The point is, the idea of that we can have or ever will have a rational debate about any of this is a sham. I’m writing a piece now about an episode of American imperialism in our distant past, and it’s amazing to me, even at my advanced age, how readily our forebears decided what they wanted to believe, and arranged the intelligence to fit the preferred narrative. I agree with Niall Gooch:
V annoying that “rational” has ceased to be a useful descriptive term & instead become a tribal identifier for a social/cultural viewpoint.
— Niall Gooch (@niall_gooch) June 12, 2012



Yeah, this is confirmation bias, Rod – your own. You saw a headline study that “proved” something you already believed was true, and you ran with it despite the fact that the “study” had methodology problems that wouldn’t pass muster in a first-year sociology class.
Before you can complain about the debate not being rational, you actually have to be rational. You weren’t; you saw something that you thought was good for your position and you jumped on it before applying any sort of rational skepticism.